My name is Vanessa Wenzel; I am a contradictive, complicated teenage girl. My like has consisted of hardships and complete unfairness. I haven't gone through anyting to cause me to grow up at a certain point, because I had to grow up at a young age. Just now growing out of my shell or breaking the chains to spread my wings and fly. I am going to tell you only a couple of the things that actually helped me be who I am now.One of the main things that caused me to change was the fact that some of my closest family and friends passed away in the same two years. THe first to pass away was my Great Grandpa Freose who was in his 90's. He had perfectly good health all his life. THe second was my Grandmother Wenzel who had been diagnosed with small cell cancer once before was fighting it her second time. The doctors knew she wasn't going to make it, but the question was how long she could push herself. She lived a year passed what she was suppose to, but died a week before her birthday. The third was myGreat Uncle Ray who had been very sick for a long time and the sickness took him. THe fourth was a family friend named Cliff. He and his wife use to babysitt my little brother and me as kids. He had horrible health as well and he wemt on years longer than expected. Sadly his life was taken eventually. There people all died within two years of each other. It taught me that even in the darkest of times there is always light at the end of the tunnel.
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Another thing that caused me to branch out was my parents getting a divorce. I know that is a common thing, but it effected me greatly. My parents got divorced at the end of my second grade year. Their divorce wasn't too bad, but wasn't too nice either. My dad disappeared from my life for about a year, by his choice. He disappeared on Christmas and didn't come back till around that same time next year. My family seedmed tighter than ever when he was gone, but I was sitll scared. Scared that he was hurt, that I'd never see my dad again, and I would have nightmares about it all. When he came back it showed me that you must rememver even in fear there is a good purpose for it all. Those are only a few things that helped me express who I am. Yes my things may be ordindary to you, but to me they are the things that I hold close to me. Everyone goes through something that helps them go through or start changes. I just listed mine now I want to know what yours are.
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